“I’ve looked beyond first impressions.”
You know more than the photo, the salary and the two meetings told you.
Marriage is a big decision. Go beyond the biodata and first impressions: understand yourself, see what matters between you and the person you’re considering, and know which conversations deserve your attention.
16 topics, calm and stressedYour private profile, read by the Compatibility Engine and approved by you.
Pre-Marital Compatibility AnalysisPrivate Profile and PersonaDyadic Alignment ReportSafety ReviewPsychologist-Led Evaluation
Photo: Couple sitting quietly together at home, late evening
Photo: Couple making up after an argument, kitchen at night
Photo: Couple going through household bills at the table
Photo: Older couple holding hands on a balcony
Photo: Woman looking out of a window, thinking
Photo: Family gathered for a festival mealWhat if
you’ve never seen how he handles an argument?
you haven’t talked about where you’ll live?
his family expects one thing, and you another?
you think about money very differently?
her silence after a fight lasts for days?
only one career is expected to bend?
you want different things from intimacy?
nobody has asked her what she wants?
children and caring for parents never came up?
the salary was the only thing anyone checked?
the hard questions are waiting until after the wedding?
you knew them, before you say yes?
See how compatibility works
What clarity feels like
Not a score. Peace of mind.
Most of us spend hours on the visible details and very little time on the things that shape everyday married life. This is what it feels like to close that gap.
“I know which conversations matter.”
Where to live, money and parents, two careers, children. You walk in knowing what to ask.
“I can decide for myself, with more context.”
Families advise and friends have opinions. The decision is still yours, and now it’s an informed one.
“I don’t have to keep guessing.”
The doubt that kept coming back finally has something calm and clear to meet it.
“We were honest with each other from the start.”
You both answered the same questions truthfully, so neither of you has to wonder.
“Our families understand us better.”
Two biodatas that show who you are, not just what you have, for the people who love you.
Photo: Couple sitting together on a terrace, deep in an easy conversationA biodata introduces a person. It doesn’t show the life you’d build together.
What you get
See a sample report
Traditional biodatas don’t work in 2026.
Clarity comes from understanding the everyday life you hope to share: how you argue, who decides, how money is shared, whose career bends. Three ways to see it, before yes.
01Your private profile and persona
Start by telling your story at your own pace: upbringing, past relationships, family, money, work, faith and what you hope for. The Compatibility Engine turns it into a private profile and drafts a persona of how you see things, for you to correct and approve.
- Pause, skip and edit whenever you like
- Each point linked to something you said, with “uncertain” where it isn’t sure
- Your persona answers everyday situations, calm and stressed, and you verify them
- A safety review on its own, and family and partner biodatas as PDFs
02Compatibility matrix
See the whole picture, not just a number. Swap YH codes with someone you’re considering and read your approved profiles side by side, in calm and in stress: what you share, where you differ, and what deserves an honest conversation. One final score out of 100 sums it up, and the matrix shows how it was made.
- The Compatibility Engine does the comparing, and no one at Yours Honestly reads your answers (a psychologist you book can, for that evaluation only)
- Astrology: Ashtakoota guna milan out of 36, doshas flagged, shown on its own
- What works between you, and a practical way through what doesn’t
- ₹999 per report, with 15 days of Ask Honestly about that person
03Ask Honestly, the AI chat for the hard questions
When you don’t know what to ask, start here. Will he support my career? How involved is her family? Make sense of your differences and prepare the questions worth asking, with answers drawn only from their verified profile.
- 15 days of Ask Honestly with every compatibility report
- Never reveals or quotes a private answer
- Tells you how sure it is, and never decides for you
The compatibility matrix
Two people, read side by side
Most couples only meet each other on good days. So the Compatibility Engine takes each person’s verified answers and compares them four ways: calm with calm, then each of you under stress, then both of you under stress. Sixteen topics, one clear picture.
See how the matrix worksSample · Ankita + SubhamOpening both profiles
Dyadic alignment report
See your compatibility report.
Two approved profiles read side by side across 16 topics, in calm and in stress. Not just information to read: a clearer picture to take into your next conversation.
Sample report
You may well be compatible. A few stressful situations could bring up conflicts, so they’re worth talking through first.
Ankita · verifiedSubham · verified
Behind the score: 7 topics shared, 3 complementary, 2 negotiable, 3 to talk about, 1 unclear. Calm with calm 78, stress with stress 41. Coverage 86%, confidence medium to high. Ankita and Subham are examples, not real members. The decision is always yours.
AnkitaPersona v3 · Verified, Yours Honestly
Her persona“Ankita shows love by turning up. She remembers the small things, talks a disagreement through, and needs her work to matter as much as her partner’s.”
ConflictTalks it throughNeeds space first
MoneySaves firstEnjoys now
FamilyClose byIndependent
CareersBoth equalOne leads
EverydayEarly riserNight owl
Worth exploringWhere you’ll live
She’d like to live near her parents for the first few years. A good topic for an open conversation.
Illustrative screen with sample data.
What works
- You both talk a disagreement through until there’s a middle path.
- You want the same balance between both families, festivals included.
- You both see two careers as equally important.
What deserves a conversation
MorningsShe snoozes three alarms. He’s up for a 6 am run.
How to navigate itDon’t change each other’s rhythm. Share one ritual, like morning tea together.
Work and ambitionHer evenings are hers. His work runs late.
How to navigate itProtect two evenings and one full day together every week. Review it each quarter.
Staying in touchShe sends long voice notes. He replies in five words.
How to navigate itSay what a slow reply means to you. Keep long talks for calls, not texts.
Astrology · guna milan
28 of 36Varna1/1
Vashya2/2
Tara3/3
Yoni3/4
Graha Maitri5/5
Gana6/6
Bhakoot0/7
Nadi8/8
Bhakoot dosha is flagged. Guna milan is shown on its own and never changes the compatibility reading.
Expert evaluations, when you want another view
Psychologist evaluation
A professional psychologist reviews a compatibility report you’ve run and talks it through with you on a call. ₹5,999 per evaluation.
Astrology, by the Compatibility Engine
Guna milan out of 36 and monthly astrology predictions come with every compatibility report, read by the Compatibility Engine.
For guidance, not emergencies
If you ever feel unsafe, call 112, or 181 (Women Helpline). Tele MANAS is free on 14416, any time.
When to use it
See everything a report readsWhen to check your compatibility.
The important questions are easy to postpone. Until they matter. Any time a relationship is heading towards marriage, ask them early.
While dating, and thinking about marriage
You get along. Before it gets serious, see how you would actually live together.
In an arranged match, before you say yes
A few meetings and a biodata can’t show how someone argues or who decides. See it before you commit.
In a love marriage
The love is already there. Talk about what love tends to skip: money, family, careers and conflict.
Before your parents meet
Walk into the family meeting knowing what works between you, and what to talk through first.
After the families agree, before the engagement
There’s still time to ask what nobody asked, calmly and privately.
When a doubt keeps coming back
Look at it calmly, with more context, instead of pushing it aside.
How it works
Join with your name, number and email. Your verified profile, the start of your Pre-Marital Compatibility Analysis, is ₹2,499, paid once.
Answer honestly
Everyday moments, family, money, faith and the little things, at your own pace. You review the persona drafted from it, and you can edit it any time.
See moreGet verified
The Compatibility Engine assesses your answers and verifies your profile. No one at Yours Honestly reads them, and there’s nothing to book.
See moreSwap YH codes and read your report
Your code is permanent and works only for the people you give it to. The person you’re considering answers just as truthfully, and you choose who sees what. How we protect it.
See more
Photo: Three generations of a family talking around the table at homeEverything a report reads
Marriage brings two people, and often two families, into one shared life. These are the expectations that shape it.
Living together
Care
How each of you shows up when the other is unwell, tired or low.
Living together
Conflict
How you argue, how you repair, and how long silence lasts.
Family and money
Money
Saving and spending, joint or separate, and what goes to parents.
Family and money
Family
Who decides, where you live, and how festivals are shared.
Living together
Ambition
Two careers, late nights, moves, and whose work bends when.
Living together
Everyday rhythm
Mornings, weekends, food, faith and the small habits that add up.
Safety and astrology
Safety
A finding on anger, control and respect. Never the private answers.
Safety and astrology
Guna milan
Ashtakoota out of 36, doshas flagged, shown on its own.
Ask Honestly · AI chat · Included with every report
Ask what you can’t ask out loud.
Some questions are hard to put into words. Will he support my career? How involved is his mother? How does he handle anger? Every report comes with 15 days of Ask Honestly, our AI chat, to explore your report and prepare for the conversations that matter. It draws on everything they answered, read only by the Compatibility Engine, never reveals or quotes a private answer, and tells you how sure it is. It helps you think. It never decides for you.
Your profile also travels as two downloadable biodatas, one for family and one for a partner.
Ask Honestly
About Subham · using your shared report
Will he support my career?
Yes, from what he’s shared. He sees both careers as equally important and would pause for you when it really matters. One thing to talk about: his work runs late, so agree early on protected time together.
How does he handle anger?
He talks things through until there’s a middle path, and our assessment found no concerns about anger, control or violence. No assessment can promise how anyone will behave, so trust what you see over time. If you ever feel unsafe, call 112 or 181.
Ask Honestly helps you explore. It doesn’t decide for you.
Special feature · Handoff to ChatGPT
Keep talking about them, in ChatGPT.
Most people already talk to ChatGPT about relationships and the people in them. When your compatibility report is published, a Handoff button appears on it. Tap it to carry the conversation to ChatGPT, so it knows who you’re talking about and how the two of you meet.
₹199per week, exclusive of GST
See Handoff
ChatGPT · with Handoff
He goes quiet when he’s stressed. How do I bring up the job offer?
In your report, you meet well on calm days. Under strain you each pull away first, so pick a calm moment and say you’d like to decide it together.
Sample conversation, illustrative.
You don’t need someone to decide for you. You need clarity to decide for yourself.
Pricing
Pay once for your profile. Pay only for the reports you run.
You’re paying for a clearer decision, not a number. No monthly plan, no subscription, and nothing renews.
STEP 1 · ONE TIME
Profile building
₹2,499 one time
- Your private profile, built by the Compatibility Engine from your story
- A persona you review and approve, with sources
- A safety review on anger, control and respect
- Family and partner biodatas, as PDFs
- Your permanent YH code to share
Only after your profile is ready
Compatibility report
₹999 per report
- Where you align, what deserves a conversation, and a way through it
- Only one of you needs to pay. Once it’s published, the report appears in the other person’s profile too
- One final score out of 100, the matrix behind it, and a plain-language summary
- Guna milan out of 36, doshas flagged
- Ask Honestly, our AI chat about that person, included for 15 days
- Monthly astrology predictions for those 15 days
Handoff to ChatGPT
₹199 per week
- A button on your published report that continues the conversation in ChatGPT
- Optional, and weekly. Available only once a report is published, to either of you, whoever paid for the report. How Handoff works
Psychologist evaluation
₹5,999 per evaluation
- A professional psychologist reviews your compatibility report
- A call to talk it through with you. Optional, and for guidance, not emergencies
All prices are exclusive of GST. Any offer is applied at checkout as a coupon code.
What does it cost?
Your verified profile is ₹2,499, paid once. Each compatibility report is ₹999 and includes 15 days of Ask Honestly, our AI chat, about that person, plus monthly astrology predictions for those 15 days. A psychologist evaluation is ₹5,999 per evaluation, if you want one. All prices are exclusive of GST. Any offer is applied at checkout as a coupon code.
Is there a subscription?
No. You pay once for your verified profile, and then only for the compatibility reports you choose to run. Nothing renews, and you’re never charged automatically.
Does the other person need to be a member?
They need a verified Yours Honestly profile, because a report reads both profiles side by side. They share their YH code with you, and you share yours with them.
Who verifies my profile?
The Compatibility Engine drafts your persona and, once you approve it, marks your profile “Verified, Yours Honestly”. No one at Yours Honestly reads your answers. There’s nothing to book and no session to attend when you join. The only exception is a psychologist evaluation you choose to book: that psychologist can read your answers, for that evaluation only.
Do I have to answer every question?
No. You choose how deep to go, and you can skip anything, including sensitive areas like intimacy and health. Where there aren’t enough answers, the report says “not enough shared answers” instead of guessing. Your progress saves as you go.
Can I change my answers later?
Yes. Your profile is a versioned file, so each edit creates a new version and nothing is silently rewritten. You can also export it or delete it. Reports already run keep the version they used.
Why should I answer truthfully?
Because the person you’re considering will be asked to do the same. A compatibility report is only as honest as the two profiles behind it.
Can someone pull a compatibility report on me?
Only if you give them your YH code. Your code is permanent, so share it only with people you’re seriously considering. You’re told every time it’s used.
Who sees my answers?
Your private answers, about intimacy, your past, your health and your childhood, are read only by the Compatibility Engine. No one at Yours Honestly reads them. The one exception is a psychologist evaluation you choose to book, where that psychologist can read your answers for that evaluation only. Families and matches see your approved comparison, your biodatas and our findings, never your answers.
Is my data encrypted?
Yes. Your data is stored against your own account and only you and the Compatibility Engine can access it. No one at Yours Honestly reads it, unless you book a psychologist evaluation, in which case that psychologist can read your answers for that evaluation only. Your chats are kept only on your own device, encrypted with a key that is made there and can’t be copied out. Profile and report PDFs are password-locked.
How will you contact me?
By email only, at the address you join with.
Do I need astrology?
No. Every compatibility report includes guna milan, but it’s shown on its own and never changes your assessment or the general score. If it isn’t for you, you can simply ignore it.
Is this a matrimony site?
No. Yours Honestly is the honest layer before a match: a verified profile and a compatibility report for someone you’re already considering, wherever you met them.
Why before yes
Read our articles
The important questions are the ones we postpone. Yours Honestly helps you ask them, before yes.
How two people argue, commit and stay safe decides more marriages than anything on paper.
Conflict57.7%
of divorced people say too much conflict and arguing ended their marriage
How two people argue, and how they repair afterwards, decides more marriages than almost anything on a biodata. It’s the first thing our compatibility report reads.
Scott et al., Couple and Family Psychology, 2013 (US study of divorced adults)Commitment75%
say a lack of commitment was a major reason they divorced
Commitment is easy to promise at the start and hard to read from a photo. We look at how each of you shows up when it’s inconvenient, not just when it’s easy.
Scott et al., Couple and Family Psychology, 2013Safety29.3%
of married women in India have faced physical or sexual violence from their husband
That’s why every profile carries a safety finding on anger, control and respect, so a match sees it before yes, never the private answers behind it.
National Family Health Survey (NFHS-5), 2019–21
A note from our founder
Marriage is one of life’s biggest decisions, yet we often know little about how a person truly lives and loves. Dating apps focus on appearances; matrimony apps often offer biodata without real insight. No wonder so many of us feel unsure about saying yes.
I built this platform for myself, for you, and for anyone who wants that partnership but feels uncertain about finding one in today’s world. I hope it helps you choose with greater clarity.
Yours Honestly, Satya
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