Marriage is a big decision. Go beyond the biodata and first impressions: understand yourself, see what matters between you and the person you’re considering, and know which conversations deserve your attention.

Launch offerFounding members: the first 111 people get their profile free, plus their first compatibility report free, until 31 December 2026.
12 personality typesEvery verified profile is one of them, read by the Compatibility Engine.
Pre-Marital Compatibility AnalysisVerified Personality ProfilingDyadic Alignment ReportSafety ScreeningPsychologist-Led Evaluation
Care
Anyone looks good in a photo.Not everyone makes soup when you have a fever.
Conflict
Nobody posts the 2 am fight.Look for the 2:15 apology.
Money
Salary tells you lifestyle.Not loyalty.
Commitment
Chemistry gets the first date.Personality gets the fiftieth anniversary.
Feelings
“I’m fine.”Honestly: I need you to ask twice.
Family
Don’t judge them dressed up.Notice them when they’re tired.

What if

  1. you’ve never seen how he handles an argument?

  2. you haven’t talked about where you’ll live?

  3. his family expects one thing, and you another?

  4. you think about money very differently?

  5. her silence after a fight lasts for days?

  6. only one career is expected to bend?

  7. you want different things from intimacy?

  8. nobody has asked her what she wants?

  9. children and caring for parents never came up?

  10. the salary was the only thing anyone checked?

  11. the hard questions are waiting until after the wedding?

  12. you knew them, before you say yes?

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What clarity feels like

Not a score. Peace of mind.

Most of us spend hours on the visible details and very little time on the things that shape everyday married life. This is what it feels like to close that gap.

Reassurance

“I’ve looked beyond first impressions.”

You know more than the photo, the salary and the two meetings told you.

Preparedness

“I know which conversations matter.”

Where to live, money and parents, two careers, children. You walk in knowing what to ask.

Agency

“I can decide for myself, with more context.”

Families advise and friends have opinions. The decision is still yours, and now it’s an informed one.

Relief

“I don’t have to keep guessing.”

The doubt that kept coming back finally has something calm and clear to meet it.

Respect

“We were honest with each other from the start.”

You both answered the same questions truthfully, so neither of you has to wonder.

Belonging

“Our families understand us better.”

Two biodatas that show who you are, not just what you have, for the people who love you.

A biodata introduces a person. It doesn’t show the life you’d build together.

What you get

Traditional biodatas don’t work in 2026.

Clarity comes from understanding the everyday life you hope to share: how you argue, who decides, how money is shared, whose career bends. Three ways to see it, before yes.

01Your deep personality analysis

Start by understanding yourself. A long, honest questionnaire built from everyday moments, not tick boxes, read by the Compatibility Engine into a written portrait of your expectations, priorities and the way you love.

  • Your personality type, one of twelve
  • A written portrait of how you love
  • A safety finding on anger, control and respect
  • Family and partner biodatas, as PDFs
02Compatibility score

See the whole picture, not just a number. Swap YH codes with someone you’re considering and read your profiles side by side: where you align, where you differ, and what deserves an honest conversation. The score out of 100 sits inside that picture.

  • Live assessment: the Compatibility Engine assesses your answers as you go and verifies your profile, and no one at Yours Honestly reads them (a psychologist you book can, for that evaluation only)
  • Astrology: Ashtakoota guna milan out of 36, doshas flagged, shown on its own
  • What works between you, and a practical way through what doesn’t
  • ₹999 per report, with 15 days of Ask Honestly about that person
03Ask Honestly, the AI chat for the hard questions

When you don’t know what to ask, start here. Will he support my career? How involved is her family? Make sense of your differences and prepare the questions worth asking, with answers drawn only from their verified profile.

  • 15 days of Ask Honestly with every compatibility report
  • Never reveals or quotes a private answer
  • Tells you how sure it is, and never decides for you
See a sample report
Dyadic alignment report

See your compatibility report.

Two profiles read side by side across 80 parameters. Not just information to read: a clearer picture to take into your next conversation.

Sample report 89OUT OF 100
Yes, you can get married. Three areas deserve a conversation first.
Ankita · The DiplomatSubham · The Diplomat

Your report ends with a plain conclusion you can act on. The decision is always yours. Ankita and Subham are examples, not real members.

AnkitaThe Diplomat · Verified, Yours Honestly
Her profile

“Ankita shows love by turning up. She remembers the small things, talks a disagreement through, and needs her work to matter as much as her partner’s.”

ConflictTalks it throughNeeds space first
MoneySaves firstEnjoys now
FamilyClose byIndependent
CareersBoth equalOne leads
EverydayEarly riserNight owl
Worth exploringWhere you’ll live

She’d like to live near her parents for the first few years. A good topic for an open conversation.

Illustrative screen with sample data.

What works

  • You both talk a disagreement through until there’s a middle path.
  • You want the same balance between both families, festivals included.
  • You both see two careers as equally important.

What deserves a conversation

MorningsShe snoozes three alarms. He’s up for a 6 am run.
How to navigate itDon’t change each other’s rhythm. Share one ritual, like morning tea together.
Work and ambitionHer evenings are hers. His work runs late.
How to navigate itProtect two evenings and one full day together every week. Review it each quarter.
Staying in touchShe sends long voice notes. He replies in five words.
How to navigate itSay what a slow reply means to you. Keep long talks for calls, not texts.

Astrology · guna milan

28 of 36
Varna1/1
Vashya2/2
Tara3/3
Yoni3/4
Graha Maitri5/5
Gana6/6
Bhakoot0/7
Nadi8/8

Bhakoot dosha is flagged. Guna milan is shown on its own and never changes the general score.

Expert evaluations, when you want another view

Psychologist evaluation

A professional psychologist reviews a compatibility report you’ve run and talks it through with you on a call. ₹5,999 per evaluation.

Astrology, by the Compatibility Engine

Guna milan out of 36 and monthly astrology predictions come with every compatibility report, read by the Compatibility Engine.

For guidance, not emergencies

If you ever feel unsafe, call 112, or 181 (Women Helpline). Tele MANAS is free on 14416, any time.

When to use it

When to check your compatibility.

The important questions are easy to postpone. Until they matter. Any time a relationship is heading towards marriage, ask them early.

See everything a report reads

While dating, and thinking about marriage

You get along. Before it gets serious, see how you would actually live together.

In an arranged match, before you say yes

A few meetings and a biodata can’t show how someone argues or who decides. See it before you commit.

In a love marriage

The love is already there. Talk about what love tends to skip: money, family, careers and conflict.

Before your parents meet

Walk into the family meeting knowing what works between you, and what to talk through first.

After the families agree, before the engagement

There’s still time to ask what nobody asked, calmly and privately.

When a doubt keeps coming back

Look at it calmly, with more context, instead of pushing it aside.

How it works

Join with your name, number and email. Your verified profile, the start of your Pre-Marital Compatibility Analysis, is ₹2,499, paid once.

See every step
01

Answer honestly

Everyday moments, family, money, faith and the little things. Every question is required, and answers lock when you submit.

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02

Get verified

The Compatibility Engine assesses your answers and verifies your profile. No one at Yours Honestly reads them, and there’s nothing to book.

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03

Swap YH codes and read your report

Your code is permanent and works only for the people you give it to. The person you’re considering answers just as truthfully, and you choose who sees what. How we protect it.

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Everything a report reads

Marriage brings two people, and often two families, into one shared life. These are the expectations that shape it.

Living together

Care

How each of you shows up when the other is unwell, tired or low.

Living together

Conflict

How you argue, how you repair, and how long silence lasts.

Family and money

Money

Saving and spending, joint or separate, and what goes to parents.

Family and money

Family

Who decides, where you live, and how festivals are shared.

Living together

Ambition

Two careers, late nights, moves, and whose work bends when.

Living together

Everyday rhythm

Mornings, weekends, food, faith and the small habits that add up.

Safety and astrology

Safety

A finding on anger, control and respect. Never the private answers.

Safety and astrology

Guna milan

Ashtakoota out of 36, doshas flagged, shown on its own.

Ask Honestly · AI chat

Ask what you can’t ask out loud.

Some questions are hard to put into words. Will he support my career? How involved is his mother? How does he handle anger? Every report comes with 15 days of Ask Honestly, our AI chat, to explore your report and prepare for the conversations that matter. It draws on everything they answered, read only by the Compatibility Engine, never reveals or quotes a private answer, and tells you how sure it is. It helps you think. It never decides for you.

Your profile also travels as two downloadable biodatas, one for family and one for a partner.

Ask Honestly
About Subham · using your shared report
Will he support my career?
Yes, from what he’s shared. He sees both careers as equally important and would pause for you when it really matters. One thing to talk about: his work runs late, so agree early on protected time together.
How does he handle anger?
He talks things through until there’s a middle path, and our assessment found no concerns about anger, control or violence. No assessment can promise how anyone will behave, so trust what you see over time. If you ever feel unsafe, call 112 or 181.

Ask Honestly helps you explore. It doesn’t decide for you.

You don’t need someone to decide for you. You need clarity to decide for yourself.

Pricing

Pay once for your profile. Pay only for the reports you run.

You’re paying for a clearer decision, not a number. No monthly plan, no subscription, and nothing renews.

Launch offer

Founding members: the first 111 people get their profile free, plus their first compatibility report free, until 31 December 2026.

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Profile building

₹2,499 one time
  • Your deep personality analysis by the Compatibility Engine
  • Your personality type and a written portrait
  • A safety finding on anger, control and respect
  • Family and partner biodatas, as PDFs
  • Your permanent YH code to share
Start here

Only after your profile is ready

Compatibility report

₹999 per report
  • Where you align, what deserves a conversation, and a way through it
  • A score out of 100 with a plain-language summary
  • Guna milan out of 36, doshas flagged
  • 15 days of Ask Honestly, the AI chat about that person
  • Monthly astrology predictions for those 15 days

Psychologist evaluation

₹5,999 per evaluation
  • A professional psychologist reviews your compatibility report
  • A call to talk it through with you. Optional, and for guidance, not emergencies

All prices are exclusive of GST. Any other offer is applied at checkout as a coupon code.

FAQ

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What does it cost?

Your verified profile is ₹2,499, paid once. Each compatibility report is ₹999 and includes 15 days of Ask Honestly, our AI chat, about that person, plus monthly astrology predictions for those 15 days. A psychologist evaluation is ₹5,999 per evaluation, if you want one. All prices are exclusive of GST. Founding members: the first 111 people get their profile free, plus their first compatibility report free, until 31 December 2026. Any other offer is applied at checkout as a coupon code.

Is there a subscription?

No. You pay once for your verified profile, and then only for the compatibility reports you choose to run. Nothing renews, and you’re never charged automatically.

Does the other person need to be a member?

They need a verified Yours Honestly profile, because a report reads both profiles side by side. They share their YH code with you, and you share yours with them.

Who verifies my profile?

The Compatibility Engine assesses your answers and marks your profile “Verified, Yours Honestly”. No one at Yours Honestly reads your answers. There’s nothing to book and no session to attend when you join. The only exception is a psychologist evaluation you choose to book: that psychologist can read your answers, for that evaluation only.

Do I have to answer every question?

Yes. Every question is required, because a profile with gaps can’t be assessed fairly. Your progress saves as you go, so you can take it in more than one sitting.

Can I change my answers later?

No. Answers lock when you submit. To change anything, you’d delete your profile and join again with a different email address, so take your time before you submit.

Why should I answer truthfully?

Because the person you’re considering will be asked to do the same. A compatibility report is only as honest as the two profiles behind it.

Can someone pull a compatibility report on me?

Only if you give them your YH code. Your code is permanent, so share it only with people you’re seriously considering. You’re told every time it’s used.

Who sees my answers?

Your private answers, about intimacy, your past, your health and your childhood, are read only by the Compatibility Engine. No one at Yours Honestly reads them. The one exception is a psychologist evaluation you choose to book, where that psychologist can read your answers for that evaluation only. Families and matches see your approved portrait, your biodatas and our findings, never your answers.

Is my data encrypted?

Yes. Your data is stored against your own account and only you and the Compatibility Engine can access it. No one at Yours Honestly reads it, unless you book a psychologist evaluation, in which case that psychologist can read your answers for that evaluation only. Your chats are kept only on your own device, encrypted with a key that is made there and can’t be copied out. Profile and report PDFs are password-locked.

How will you contact me?

By email only, at the address you join with.

Do I need astrology?

No. Every compatibility report includes guna milan, but it’s shown on its own and never changes your assessment or the general score. If it isn’t for you, you can simply ignore it.

Is this a matrimony site?

No. Yours Honestly is the honest layer before a match: a verified profile and a compatibility report for someone you’re already considering, wherever you met them.

Why before yes

The important questions are the ones we postpone. Yours Honestly helps you ask them, before yes.

How two people argue, commit and stay safe decides more marriages than anything on paper.

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Conflict57.7%

of divorced people say too much conflict and arguing ended their marriage

How two people argue, and how they repair afterwards, decides more marriages than almost anything on a biodata. It’s the first thing our compatibility report reads.

Scott et al., Couple and Family Psychology, 2013 (US study of divorced adults)
Commitment75%

say a lack of commitment was a major reason they divorced

Commitment is easy to promise at the start and hard to read from a photo. We look at how each of you shows up when it’s inconvenient, not just when it’s easy.

Scott et al., Couple and Family Psychology, 2013
Safety29.3%

of married women in India have faced physical or sexual violence from their husband

That’s why every profile carries a safety finding on anger, control and respect, so a match sees it before yes, never the private answers behind it.

National Family Health Survey (NFHS-5), 2019–21
Satya, founder of Yours Honestly A note from our founder

Marriage is one of life’s biggest decisions, yet we often know little about how a person truly lives and loves. Dating apps focus on appearances; matrimony apps often offer biodata without real insight. No wonder so many of us feel unsure about saying yes.

I built this platform for myself, for you, and for anyone who wants that partnership but feels uncertain about finding one in today’s world. I hope it helps you choose with greater clarity.

Yours Honestly, Satya

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